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"Fisting hurts." I read that line once in an older guide to lesbian sex. And for a long time I thought that was true. Fisting - meaning vaginal or anal penetration with the whole hand - long seemed to me to be a rather extreme sex practice. After I had watched some videos about it on the internet, I was sure: It can only work under pain.

How fisting works and how to have no pain

"My first attempts at fisting were quite painful." Still, I wanted to try it sometime. I was curious because I imagined the feeling of having my partner so deep inside of me, letting her penetrate me completely and showing her how much I want her, as a wonderful experience. My first attempts to be fisted were unfortunately quite painful. My girlfriend had rather big hands, I was quite nervous and tense. "When I was fisted successfully for the first time a few years after my first attempts, I didn't even notice." My partner and I just had exciting sex. We had already experienced a lot together, trusted each other and were a well-rehearsed team. We had a good communication about what we wanted and wanted to discover together in bed. We had already talked about this topic several times and slowly approached each other, researched together on the Internet. But we didn't want to put any pressure on ourselves either. Then it happened quite by chance. There are those days when all you want to do is cuddle and have cosy sex. And there are those days when you want more. One of those days, I wanted to feel her. Suddenly I was overwhelmed by feelings that I had never felt before in my life. The slightest movement of her hand triggered a storm of emotions in me, endorphins rushed through my body. I was no longer in the here and now, completely relaxed and on the verge of exploding. Years later it is still difficult for me to put this into words. There are a few things to consider when fisting, so that the experience is pleasant for both

Good communication is a must during a fistfuck

This practice is very intimate and intense and requires a great deal of relaxation and trust, especially from the receiving person. If you are not really relaxed, it will most likely not work! Lubricant cannot be used enough, it prevents unpleasant friction and makes the whole process smoother. Short cut fingernails and latex gloves protect against injuries and infections. When fisting you should proceed carefully, working your way finger by finger, always paying attention to the signals the receiving person gives off. All fingers are inserted one after the other and stretched out, the back of the hand should then slide in with a fluid movement. Now the hand is clenched inside to form a fist. Never try to insert your hand as a fist!

Fisting should not hurt

It can cause a brief unpleasant sensation when the ankles and the back of the hand pass through the vaginal or anal muscle, but many describe this as a kind of "sweet pain". This is where you need to be before anything else.

Patience and practice

After breaking up with my girlfriend at the time, I thought that I wouldn't find anyone else with whom fisting would work so well. But not too long later I met a great woman who had years of experience with it and loved to be fisted as much as she loved to actively fist herself. So it was the first time that I put my whole hand into someone. Even when we had sex for the first time, she asked me to do it for her. My initial insecurity quickly subsided as she showed me how much she wanted it during the whole process. I was already familiar with the technique from my numerous researches and experiences from the years before, but to do this myself for the first time was simply an overwhelming feeling.

Even tears came to my eyes

It was not only stimulating to see how another person was willing to take in so much of me. It was also so nice and warm, so soft and wet. Being so close to her, so deep inside her body, filling her up and seeing her squirm with lust was incredibly sexy. I felt very connected to her in that moment and even tears came to my eyes. A short time later we also stopped seeing each other, but I am very grateful to her for bringing me so well into the active side of fisting. After a few years and many attempts, fisting has become one of my favourite sex practices. I have also learned a lot about my own body, for example that I enjoy strong penetration very much and that I can get very intense, incomparable orgasms through fisting.

Many do fisting, but only a few talk about it

In my circle of friends we talk quite openly about sexuality, we exchange ideas and report about our experiences. This is how I learned that more people fist than many people think. With exciting things it is often like this: many people do it, but only few talk about it. But an open approach to this topic would be helpful. So that Fisting finally gets out of the dirty corner.