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Boys, do you secretly like fat women? Do you think chubby people are sexy and don't look for a fat girlfriend just because you would be ashamed of them?

Lindy is American, a writer and big beautiful woman!

She says so herself because she wants this word to finally stop being used in a negative way, but as a pure description, like "blonde" or "short". Lindy has written a book about what it is like to be fat. It is called "Shrill" and most of the time it is rather funny and loud, but sometimes it is also sad. Especially when she talks about her first dates. Because at first no boy wanted to be with her for a long time. She was fat. As she got older, there were gradually more and more men who started something with her and who openly admitted to her that they found her extremely attractive. Not in spite of fat, but among other things because of it. The sad thing about the story is that these men completely concealed Lindy's existence: they didn't take her to parties, they didn't introduce her to friends and family, they didn't want to be seen with her.

Many men look for porn with fat women

We remembered this story when we recently heard from Seth Stephens-Davidowitz again. He wrote the book "Everybody Lies", which is about the Internet and Big Data betraying who we really are. And in it he also claims that many men, when they search for porn, explicitly look for porn with fat women as protagonists (an analysis of the porn portal Pornhub also showed this). In an interview with Vox, Stephens-Davidowitz said: "I'm sure that more men go for overweight women than thin ones. But they try to date skinny women to impress their friends and family." And so we asked ourselves (and hereby pass this question on to you): Is it true? Because you really rarely see boys or men with fat girlfriends - at least none who are not fat themselves. Do they all hide them, like the guys in Lindys youth? On the other hand, you don't see that so rarely: a pair of a slim woman and a less slim man. And then everyone is always happy and says: "Look what a beautiful woman this one has gotten" and "Look, the beautiful Elisa doesn't even care about beauty ideals herself and is simply with a man who is smart and likeable. She really cares about inner values!" Somehow it seems to be more accepted that a thin woman has a fat man than the other way around.

Why, dear boys, is that so?

Is there any kind of compulsion, implanted by early porn or whatever consumption, to "Trophy Wife", i.e. the woman with whom you can adorn yourself - and who therefore has to correspond to the common ideals of beauty? So do you suffer from these for women as much as we do, because you are not allowed to touch and love what you want to touch and love? Are you only considered a "real man" if you have a woman with a small BMI? Does the whole thing have nothing to do with the body volume, but something to do with those worn out clichés that are associated with the fact that fat women are "loud and funny", but you want a quiet woman (who could theoretically also be fat)? What happens anyway when one of you shows up with a fat girlfriend? Do you get a wry look then? Do the buddies whisper and make stupid "Oh, she must have a great character" jokes? Please enlighten us.

A lot of men are into BBW

Sure, a lot of people are into fat women, but to assume a kind of "silent majority" based on aggregated porn search terms seems to us rather a shaky thesis. In order to retrieve porn from slim women, you hardly have to enter "skinny", since almost all of them are slim anyway. But if you're looking for fat, you'll have to enter "fat", which is probably why these search queries are higher. And the fact that the taste in porn doesn't always correspond to everyday sexual habits is somehow also a rush. But enough of that, you have even more questions: If we think about it for a while, we can actually think of friends who don't necessarily hide their not exactly super slim girlfriends, but "present" them with a different attitude than a thin woman would have. When they click on the photos of their new flame's Facebook presence, they send along a precautionary "looks really thin" or a "isn't normally my type". In plain language: in these moments the friend is afraid that we won't find his girlfriend's body hot enough. On how many levels that sucks is pretty spectacular. But it happens. And that is a pity and of course totally disloyal to his own girlfriend. Why does the friend now assume that we think so? Probably because, unsurprisingly, the majority of men prefer women who meet the common ideal of beauty. And in the western hemisphere, this is an image that is very much reduced to slimness. Anyone who falls out of the scheme when choosing a partner obviously feels obliged to explain himself.

There is no ideal female body

Where we have picked up this ideal image of a female body, we probably don't have to explain to you, because it penetrates us all day by day on posters, on screens, everywhere. And although you suffer more from it, it has an effect on us: Where it tells you "you must be thin" it tells us "you must have a thin girlfriend". The fact that beauty ideals are anything but manifest is, thank God, now also a rush. Sure, not all men will ever go for fat women, but shouldn't this be about all possible body shapes and not the quasi-black-and-white contrast fat vs. thin? Maybe it also says something about a change for the better if more guys watch porn movies with fat women. But then you have to ask yourself if male "fatgirl" wank fantasies are the best proof of growing respect for the diversity of female bodies.